1. Influence others to become better (instead of thinking of how to change others).
2. Practice appreciation on yourself.
3. Make it a priority to notice what others are doing right.
4. Notice what you value, and focus on that.
This is a good reminder to focus on what's positive in ourselves and in others. Link to the HBR blog: http://blogs.hbr.org/schwartz/2012/01/why-appreciation-matters-so-mu.html